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It was so thoughtful, and the questions afterwards were so smart…I love this con, it’s just amazing. I hope there are more like it, soon. It’s an astounding creative success. I hope it’s a commercial one, as well.
The discussion after was brief, they kicked us out for time.
The only real complaint about the books that we heard (and again, the discussion was short, there may have been more with time), was from a very smart woman who sat right behind me (I didn’t make my presence known, I just wanted to sit in to support scholarly discussion of comics), who felt that Scandal telling her father, Vandal Savage, that she would not give him a true heir, was giving the message that lesbians don’t want to have families, or are anti-childbearing.
It’s an interesting point, I think it’s a fair observation to make—I will have to reread the scene because I’m pretty sure that Scandal just objects to Vandal’s manipulations, not the IDEA of childbearing.
I can see where someone would come to this conclusion, especially if they take Scandal’s flippant remarks to her father out of context:
She had a few of these little outbursts, making it seem like having a child would be the worst possible thing she could imagine. At one point, she told her father she’d rather die than continue his (their) legacy.
Of course, if you read the whole book, it’s very clear that Scandal is most vehemently opposed to the force that’s being used against her, and many of the things she says, above example included, are to make a point, and get under Vandal’s skin.
But, I still think it’s valid to say that Scandal is opposed to having kids. At the end of that book, she talks about getting her tubes tied, like it’s an easy way to be permanently rid of a pesky problem. She goes on to say that people who lead her kind of life don’t make good parents.
But she’s not talking about being gay, she’s talking about being a villian-for-hire. So yes, I get the sense that Scandal never wants to have kids, but I never really tied that in to the fact that she’s gay. I think the two just happen to mutually coexist.
Those are really good points. I realize intent is always a tricky issue, but my feeling at the time was that the ‘tubal’ comment was her last way of saying FUCK YOU to her father and his plans to dominate her life.
Also, I didn’t write that top panel, that was Paul Cornell.
I think you make a good case. I can see now what the woman in the panel was talking about.
I think Scandal would make a lovely mom. As an adopted kid myself and a foster parent, it’s important to remember that there are LOTS of ways to have kids, not all of which would satisfy Vandal’s desires. She could certainly adopt.
Agreed with the above, but I also want to point out that in addition to the original commenter’s issue, another stereotype that tends to crop with lesbians is that, even though they’re gay, they’re still women so of course they want to have children. Which is a whole nother kettle of problematic fish. So coming from that perspective, I really quite enjoyed reading about Scandal not wanting kids. Even if it was a context based decision.
But yeah, while I think the context for this makes Scandal’s reasons very clear, it also creates so associations, by proximity if not by semantics, that are a little uncomfortable in their implications.
Which obviously just means we need tons more LGBTQ heroes, so that the whole spectrum of emotions on the topic can be shown off. XD
That’s also a great point, and you’re right, we see that presented as cliche quite often, which is seemingly trying to indicate that the lesbian character feels incomplete somehow, like they feel they have to make some sort of substitution for a life they would have had if they were a straight wife and mom, which, agreed, is all bullshit.
The lady in question felt it was tone-deaf because she had been aware of a lot of gay parenting blogs, which is a fair point, but doesn’t necessarily apply to every gay character.
You’re right, Dwayne McDuffie talked about this—if you have one black character, that character tends to have to represent all black characters. So the idea is to have more, lots more diversity. The default for almost everything still seems solidly cis-gendered, straight, white, male and able-bodied. We can do better than that.


